International etiquette Its a minefield!

International etiquette Its a minefield! Sometimes what should be simple and straight forward isn’t. Things that in one culture make perfect sense do not translate into others. The global business-place means that we are often going to find ourselves working alongside people physically and virtually. We need to understand what it is that they want and mean and to do this we have to understand that people from different cultures sometimes confound our expectations in terms of behaviour. similarly our behaviour and customs can seem baffling to them. Hand Gestures Hand gestures have massive potential to cause offence. For  example, while  I might casually point at someone,  in some cultures this is a highly offensive thing to do. Some groups regard it as normal  to use hand gestures, in others it is not considered appropriate, and can be seen as rude. Being clear that some cultures are comfortable with people ‘talking’ with their hands whilst others  are not  and being open to peoples preferences means that you are aware of what you can do to minimise others discomfort. You may want to acknowledge this at the start of a meeting. Contact Some people are very open to giving out  their telephone numbers or email addresses  and they may expect the same from those they come into contact with. A request for this information leaves others feeling uncomfortable. The context is important here. For example, at the end of an interview UK applicants rarely ask for their interviewers email addresses but in other cultures it is expected that the interviewee will follow up their interview with a thank you email. Check before you go to interview what is expected of you. The careers team can help with this and read our earlier blog on  this. Gifts   Again, this is an area fraught with problems. In some cultures gifts are  given and received  on a regular basis. It is seen as an expression of gratitude. In other cultures this may be perceived as bribery. Refusing a gift can be highly offensive to the giver but to the recipient there can be consequences to accepting a gift and they may need to disclose this internally in their place of work. Email Surely no problems here? Sorry, this can be a minefield! You try to contact  someone but are unsure of gender so how do you address them? You want to refer to their job title? How do you find this? If in doubt you can explore the gender of names though websites, or job titles by the work directory or maybe you can try to keep things gender neutral?   In the West many companies expect staff to be on first name terms but to address customers as Mr or Ms. The idea being that the customer will demonstrate how they wished to be addressed. In other cultures using professional titles and terms such as Respected Mr X or Honoured Maam  will be the norm. if your contact is expecting a very deferential title and you use a first name you can cause real offence. Translations   Confusion can always arise when terms and documents are translated. Ask a native speaker you know for help. Where this isn’t always possible be aware you cannot rely on things such as Google Translate and that errors   arise, systems like this cannot pick up necessary nuances. If your efforts lead to misunderstandings, apologise and learn. Somy advice? Open a dialogue with people where you and they feel comfortable. Ask  about their communication preferences. Try to avoid assumptions about cultures and understand that  each individual will have their own style or preferences that come from their own experiences and interpretation of their culture. Be sensitive Good luck